The work we do (and/or have the potential to do) as teachers of the martial arts. Unsolicited advice about business and career, from Tom Callos:
We can be master change-makers (my/the new word for “warriors”). But we can’t be change-makers if we don’t own the language and actions of change-makers. This is why we don’t let others write our ad-copy or populate our info-websites and brochures with made-for-you sales content, images, sales jargon, and off-the-shelf curriculum. We’re not here for the purpose of sales and “elite wealth,” —we’re here to represent the idea of MASTERY.
Mastery over negative emotions and action; mastery over the foolishness of thinking you are what you own or can afford; mastery over apathy; mastery over disconnection, prejudice, and ignorance; mastery over the pitfalls of a diet without discipline, of a body let go, of a mind left unused.
When the pursuit and practice of mastery drives your work, for real, sales jargon and formulaic sales junk smells like meat gone bad.
The Transcendence of Your Brand Name (Style)
You are not Taekwondo (TKD), as TKD is a mess, a brand, a political quagmire, a useless, empty facade. TKD, like BJJ, like MMA, like Aikido, like whatever it is you call what you know and don’t know, is a CAR. It might be pretty, it probably has some value, but the car is not the journey; a car is made to take you on a journey.
Advertising your style is 1% of your message. What you really know, what you really teach, what isn’t someone else’s work you’ve adopted, is what you do, what you have done, what you intend to do, and what you know ———AND, all of these things applied to those you work with (staff) and your students. Honestly my friends, my master-teacher friends, if you aren’t doing amazing things in the world, change-maker things —and if you aren’t inspiring people to take what you practice on the mat and put it to work in the world, then you aren’t doing your best work. For some, certainly, that’s enough; that’s all they can imagine or hope for. For some of us however, it’s not enough. It wasn’t enough for our heroes —and by way of their examples, it’s not enough for us.
To work on your work is not a program you buy, it’s not a class you attend, it’s not a seminar or convention or reading thru the latest trade mag. It’s not your disconnecting, your inability to work on things you don’t yet understand, you inability to join and contribute. To work on your work is a concentrated, purposeful, uncomfortable, empowering DAILY PRACTICE. This is the approach I take in my work and consulting at www.the100.us.
It’s hard work, it makes you dig deep, it leaves you, at times, confused —but, like the practice of the martial arts, there is no way to master the work without showing up and practicing, mindfully, and with unrelenting focus.